Sep 04 2009
Harassment, Bullying and the Adult Beverage
I was a bully in junior high. More accurately, I was part of a small group of girls that were bullies. I don’t remember anyone ever saying to us that we were bullies, or ever really getting into trouble for our behavior. In our little minds, we just didn’t like this particular classmate of ours for a whole bunch of really stupid reasons, but which were of paramount importance to us at that time and so we teased her and we thought it was OK. We said mean and nasty things about her. We pushed her into lockers and threw basketballs at her in PE class. We bullied Amanda because she came from the poor side of a town that didn’t even have a wealthy side, because her mother had been married a couple of times, because she was short, because her clothes weren’t new, etc. etc., but mainly we picked on her because of her last name….. It happened to rhyme with a four-letter word that begins with the letter F. When I think about this, I’m glad that I don’t go home very often, once or twice a year maybe, because every time I’m there I hope that I don’t run into her, because 30 years later I know we were bullies, whether anyone ever called us that or not, and I am ashamed. So today’s blog is for Amanda.
In 2006 NSBA surveyed 32,000 students and over 50% reported seeing someone bullied every day, and the same 50% expressed doubt that teachers could stop the behavior. But we have an affirmative duty to stop this type of behavior every time we see it or hear it. The law, and Superintendent Policy JICDE, is clear about a school district’s obligation to prevent harassment and take action when it occurs. As we talked about in District Leadership, cyberbullying is on the rise and the type of bullying that can occur in that medium is often worse than the bullying that takes place in person. (I don’t even want to think about how we would have treated Amanda if we had had cell phones)
At the elementary level, and sometimes at the lower middle school level, the type of behavior that occurs mainly falls under the term of bullying. By the time our students are at the upper level of middle school and in high school, more often than not this behavior falls into the category of harassment or sexual harassment.
What is harassment? Harassment based on a person’s race, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity, ethnic background, religion, national origin, age or disability is a form of discrimination prohibited by state and federal laws. Discrimination against these “protected classes” is prohibited in places of employment and public accommodations, such as public schools. Title IX goes another step further to protect students from sexual harassment and prohibits discrimination on the basis of sex under any education program or activity receiving federal financial assistance.
When is a district liable? A district will be held liable when an appropriate school official has actual knowledge of discrimination, including harassment; that official has authority to take corrective action to address the discrimination; the school official fails to respond adequately; the inadequate response amounts to deliberate indifference; and the harassment was so severe, pervasive, and objectionably offensive that it deprived the victim of educational opportunities or benefits provided by the school system. (”kids will be kids” is an example of inadequate response, and, depending on the circumstances, may lead to a claim of deliberate indifference)
What do we do? (1) Make sure students, staff, parents and community members understand our policies. (2) Strictly enforce the policy in every building. (3) Hold everyone accountable for creating and maintaining safe learning and work environments.
Secondly, just a reminder to discuss with your staff the Alcohol and Drug policies that were distributed on Wednesday. I hope each of you has a wonderful long weekend, and as always, if I can be of any assistance, please let me know.